Category Archives: children

Messages In Music – Unleashed (Written 10-23-21)

This following song I love because of the simplicity of the Message!

‘Blah Blah Blah’ by Armin Van Buuren, is the song!

This is a Message that relates to Autistics because we don’t listen much to a society that doesn’t have much good to say!

But this message was more designed for Parents, I think!

Parents, if you have a child that is rebelling against you, maybe you should ‘check yourself’ to see how you are trying to control them!

A Natural (Wild) dog will fight against anyone trying to leash or cage it!

Doing this will break that animal and will Destroy its free spirit!

Please don’t do this to your own child!

That child is a human being just like you, and you, as a parent, are meant to give them guidance, NOT to control them!

The society we live in today teaches us to control our children, not to respect them as individuals!

This same society is going downhill very fast because of this!  They are destroying their own children and those children’s futures by simply following what society says they should do!  Don’t let this very negative society tell you how to raise a child because they are obviously failing very efficiently at it!

No one is expecting you to improve over night!

But we ALL should try to improve who we are daily and do right by others, even our own children!

So, as the song ‘Man in The Mirror’ by Michael Jackson goes, try to Improve yourself and become a leader by example, instead of following societies ways of holding others to standards, that they are not living themselves!

If you can simply become a ‘Leader by Example’, you will be a better leader than any leaders of my own country! (America)

Your child is closer to Nature than yourself and by showing them some respect, you are also showing Nature Respect!  Because Nature cares more about your children than it does about adults that have wandered off track and away from Nature!

If you Truly Love your child, then Respect them as an individual, and you will find that they will Respect you back, which will lead into a Beautiful Relationship with Them!

Have a Respectful Day!

-Doug Chandler

The Love for Exploring Life (Written 10-25-21)

Children thrive on new experiences,
They love to get out and live life,
But I think we as adults,
Sometimes overlook this fact!

All of the things we have done,
Don’t find much interest in,
Are completely new experiences,
For beautiful young minds,
We should always remember this!

Just watch your own child,
Allow them to emulate joy into you,
You might be surprised at how well,
They can do this for you!

This works best,
if you don’t have technology,
distracting you,
from having the time of your life,
with your own child!

Exploring is a part of Nature itself,
It gives them experiences they will use,
For the rest of their life,
Make a better tomorrow for your child,
By taking them exploring today!

You don’t have to save up money,
For some type of expensive vacation,
In some other part of the world,
Because your child will be happy to explore,
In your backyard or at a local park
Anywhere out in Their Nature will work as well!

We have been raised in a world,
Where we have been taught too,
Keep our children under control,
On a tight leash,
This is not Natural!

If you want your child to do something,
And they are rebelling,
Then try this approach instead!

Find something outdoors,
Your child would like to do,
Go do it with them,
Have as much fun as you can!

You will find in doing this,
Your child will respect you more,
Because you showed them respect,
They will show more love for you,
Because you showed them Love!

Stop telling your child how much you love them,
And show it in your actions,
For this is a message to you,
Sent from Nature itself!

Try suggesting things you want your child to do,
Instead of telling them what to do,
You will find by showing your respect to them,
They will now respect you more!

You want to call this a message,
From Nature or from God,
It doesn’t really matter,
Because it is for your own child,
Which should be more important to you,
Than yourself!

So, love your child,
Give them the benefit of the doubt,
They will often do the right thing,
That often you will not!

For they haven’t fallen,
From their own purity yet,
into adulthood that strips us of our Pure ways,
Our Honesty and love for others!

For this was the True message,
Of my 2,000-year-old mentor,
I will defend his name to my death,
From those who have taken advantage of it!

For being ‘Born Again’ he often referred to,
As getting back to your own purities,
That you were once born with,
I have done this better than any other,
And am now helping others,
To do the same!

Make a better tomorrow for your child,
By taking them exploring today,
Let them experience the nature,
That was created just for them!

For I am Nature,
And I have found a way,
To communicate to you,
In your chosen form!

I am Autism!

-Gods Lil Bloggy – Autistics Unlimited on WordPress

The Most Beautiful Things in Life! (Written 10-12-21)

When you give a child a leaf rake,
And that child rakes up the leaves into a giant pile,
Then has the time of their life,
Jumping into that pile!
And then doesn’t pick up that pile,
Maybe they are leaving it for another kid to enjoy!

These are the most beautiful things in life!

When you give a child a ball,
And that child goes and finds friends,
To play ball with,
So that they can enjoy it to!

These are the most beautiful things in life!

When you give a child a piece of chalk,
And they go and draw to their hearts content!

These are the most beautiful things in life!

When you help a child reconnect,
To the Nature they were born from,
By helping them to grow their own,
Through the planting of seeds,
And watching their efforts bloom,
Into a plant that feeds back into us!

These are the most beautiful things in life!

When we allow a child to think for themselves
Without trying to Control the outcome,
They will go out and be Creative,
And they simply Amaze us!

These are the most beautiful things in life!

When we allow a child to be themselves,
To remain in the Purity they were born into,
And we can become that child too,
And enjoy our life just like them,
Free from the rest of society,
Take as much time as you would like,
To become like you once were,
Born back into Purity!

These are the most beautiful things in life!

This was the basis for all my Mentors teachings,
And so, I have become just like him,
Teachings Truths about life,
Bringing others back to Reality,
Of a simple life,
Caught in the eyes,
Of all the world’s children,
That were born in Purity!

These are the most beautiful things in life!

For I was born Autistic,
And then society corrupted me,
I followed my Mentors teachings,
And found my way back,
To the purity,
That I was born with!

These are the most beautiful things in life!

Now you know the Truth,
Behind ‘Being Born Again’
For in order to grow up,
We must choose to grow down,
Back into the Purity,
That we once were!

I pass on the wisdom of millenniums,
So, you can find the Beauty in Life too!
I am Autistic Again,
And I’d have it no other way!

-Doug Chandler